Social Media Has Had a Profound Impact on Our Marriages and Divorces

Social Media and the Impact on Our Relationships

Social media usage should be a regular conversation

The rise of social media and technology has redefined the way we communicate with those around us. It has made staying in touch with long distance relatives much easier as a simple Facetime or scroll through their Facebook pictures can make you feel like you are right there with them. However, often times, social media causes us to neglect the people we are truly right there with in the moment. We spend so much time scrolling, posting and liking that sometimes we forget to look up and engage with the world around us. This can have a seriously negative impact on our family relationships.

The Impact of Social Media on Body Image

Young people are especially susceptible to the dark side of social media as they are so heavily influenced by those around them and have a strong desire to fit in with their peers. There have been countless studies showing that spending too much time on social media can create low self esteem and greatly impact ones sense of self worth based on their body image and the photos they compare themselves to online. This can be linked to anxiety and depression and we are seeing a huge rise in young people being diagnosed with various mental health and physical conditions as a result of social media. Setting rules and boundaries around social media is now a necessary part of parenting. However, both parents need to be on the same page and present a united front in order to ensure your children have a healthy relationship with social media and an even healthier relationship with themselves.

Consistency of Rules Across Households

If you are in the process of separation, or have been divorced for a while, you know the importance of creating a parenting plan to ensure a level of predictability and routine in your children’s lives across both households. In addition to a schedule of whose house they will be at each night – kids also need stability in their rules. This is why it is so important for co-parents to try their best to be on the same page and have similar household rules, for example consistent bedtimes, homework expectations and social media usage. Setting and enforcing social media boundaries should be an ongoing conversation between you, your co-parent and your child (depending on their age and maturity level to assist in making smart choices). Some tips for children and social media usage include:

The Impact of Social Media on Marriage 

Social media can cause a lot of tension in relationships. Social media allows us to communicate with various people and can be done in extremely private ways. Sometimes, this can lead to situations that you wouldn’t put yourself into in the real world and result in emotional cheating, or even in some cases, lead to physical cheating. As such, social media has been blamed for many divorces in recent years and spouses learn of their partners online behaviours. In addition to outright cheating, social media can also impact the quality of time you and your partner spend together and decrease the quality of your communication and intimacy. Just like with your children, it is very important to have honest conversations around social media usage with your partner and set boundaries that make you both comfortable.

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